LOVE, SEX AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING
Women
It’s time to close the orgasm gap. We have been taught that our bodies are not as orgasmic as men through media, religious groups, family sex education and even perhaps subtly from doctors.
Fact: Women have more orgasmic potential than men. I will teach you about your own body, you may be shocked from the things you will learn, I will give you practices and help you uncover your truth in your own sexual power. All practices are done in the privacy of your own home, with detailed instructions and support.
If you are beginning perimenopause, struggling in it or even in menopause, I am at the very beginning of menopause and I will also be beginning to study the course major of Life Transitions which will prepare me to further help women in this magical time of our lives. No, this end to our reproductive years does not have to mean the end of sex, quite the contrary. I will share the latest in science, share resources with you, and offer you breathwork and practices that may ease some of the symptoms and encourage you to explore this time as a time of pleasure, growth and new beginnings.
Women have what is referred to as the “women’s wound,” or “sister’s wound,” where we don’t believe fully in ourselves, we feel shame about parts of ourselves, we feel unworthy, undesirable, unlovable or even unable to ask for what we want that is our birthright. I will offer help so you may see those blocks, contractions, sources of pain and fear or limiting beliefs, and offer practices that may transform them into areas of strength, acceptance and empowerment. It’s my greatest honor to work with you in service and in safety.
MEN
You have had a disservice done to you by the media, religion, family sex talks and society at large. You have been falsely told that your orgasm is the pinnacle of a penetrative sex. Oh, man, there is so much more for you to discover and for your partner too!
I can teach you, through education, resources, breathwork and practices you do in the privacy of your own home. Did you know it’s possible for men to orgasm without ejaculation? If they learn how, this means they can have multiple orgasms, like a woman—there is no refractory period. I can teach you methods to help with ED. I can help you understand women and a woman’s body, along with her largest sex organ: her brain. All of my work is professional and education based, none of it is touching/nudity, so please be aware of what I am offering and what I am not offering. Reach out with any questions.
LGBTQ+
I welcome anyone to my coaching practice. I believe everyone should be celebrated, and I see there is no one or two ways to be a fully alive, sexual and loving being. I am a cis-White woman, and while I have had Inclusivity training, I by no means know it all. My biggest desire is to create a space where everyone is safe, seen, heard and felt (emotionally, energetically, and/or spiritually). If at any time I get my understanding wrong, I am very OK with learning. It is not your job nor responsibility to “teach” me, but just know, I am open to corrections, requests or education, as you feel you want to offer or voice. A respectful space in all directions is my goal. Let’s have a free 10-20 minute call and see if we are right to work together?
No matter if you identify with a label above or not, I am open to all human beings. You matter too. Into Kink, Fettish or BDSM? I am familiar with the life style. Polyamory? It’s more popular than the media wants you to believe. The tools offered in the VITA program issuing my certification are highly adaptable to all humans. How you live and choose to express your self and/or sexuality is natural, good and healthy. The only case where this is not true is if you are hurting another. Outside of that….all of you is welcome and celebrated. Let’s talk, a 10-20 minute phone conversation should give us both an idea if we are a good fit. I am open to it. Contact me, it’s a free Consultation Call.